all very true Carl, I guess it's as Obiwan Kenobi said "it all depends on your point of view".
I've tried the same arguement concerning the Isreali/Palestinian problem with my boss. He only sees Palestinians as terrorists, I try to see them as oppressed peoples using the only means they have to fight back. I don't condone violence but I can see both sides of the argument by boss doesn't, he only sees things from his political viewpoint.
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I have found that wanting to produce that vacuum doesn't work. It's only when you totally surrender self that the vacuum is revealed -- as soon as "I" come back, it's gone.
So, it's easy but it can't be done...unless: